Letter for my Future Husband

Letter for my Future Husband

 

June 30, 2014

Young as I am right now, in my heart I know that in the right season I will meet the most imperfect person fitted for me.

 

10 years from now..

To my loving husband,

How was your day? We’ve been together for sometime since we got married. You and I know for sure that we already had lots of disappointments from each other. I remember making this vow of being with you for the rest of my life and I want to reassure you of that. I will never be able to tell how grateful I am to be your wife. Please know that you are a blessing in my life. You make this vast world simpler and happier. We could get through our bad days for everything will come to pass. I want to be honest with you because giving up might become one of our options someday in life. But I will always think twice and will always fight for what is right. I love seeing our kids grow in out guidance and support, stand on their own and be the best of themselves. I know this ride will never be easy for us but I want you to be that only man who will hold my hand and protect me at all cost. I know you’re tired that’s why I’m here by your side. Good night my husband. Sleep tight. We have another day tomorrow to conquer together.

Love,

Your wife

Sir Chief and Maya Wedding review

Honestly I'm not a fan of Sir Chief and Maya neither I'm watching every episode of their love story. But I caught a glimpse photo of their fairytale wedding. And I caught myself saying wow! That girl must be really special and we would want to be treated the same way.

We are living in this world where everything must be fast, everyone seems to be all in a hurry in terms of food, work, I myself is guilty for that, and also in love. I remember reading a verse in the bible saying do not awaken love until its the right time. Im not an exception for having that. We all have our puppy loves, first loves, short term and long term relationships that we all fall in that trap of hurrying everything especially for love. How could we have that decency of a wedding if we ourselves would give up the things we could have treasured until our wedding day.

The world keeps on telling us to give everything for love coz its worth it. Its like losing part of ourselves and expecting something in return. Some have a relationship at an early age because of peer pressure without knowing its real purpose, knowing the end goal of being in a commitment. Some of us felt the need for love without knowing that Jesus have already shown His undying love for us in the cross. True love is where someone is ready to give up their life for us. And that is something we can just find in our recyclable worldy relationships today.

Everyone of us wants to have that fairytale wedding especially for ladies but we forget that we are special, we need respect, we need time, and for us to have that we must be treated with respect. Its not about having an extravagant wedding. All ladies want to have a wedding in the altar with vows, simple as it is. Its not about having a partner who has all the money in the world to show off but rather a person who is dedicated to be there for you til the end, who will listen to you as a friend, comfort you when you needed it the most, protect you at any cost. That's what everyone of us deserves isnt? To start, giving yourself respect would yield the same thing from other people. Likewise, you dont do anything you want others to do to you.

Everything that anyone gets too fast loses its likeness after a few days.

So ladies, why lower your standards? We dont aim to please people. We aim to please our Lord. And if He says there's someone for us who give that magical wedding then better believe it. Its not yet too late. Our God keeps His promises to His daughters. And we're one of them! ;D

Ready for a commitment?

Being in a relationship is being in a commitment. And thats the first thing we should all know. But for me as I grow up Ive come to learn few things about life and about relationships. We all love to feel loved and to love but then I realized that theres so much more than just being in a relationship and be attached emotionally. I get to learn that investing your time, effort, emotions to someone without really knowing if that really is Gods plan for us is just like going astray, going in our own efforts just to make things work for that relationship. Theres no perfect relationship I know but theres still something that is keeping both lovers together if they have the Lord as the center of their relationship. They have confidence in God that who they have is the best for them. I dont need to rush  things right now, coz now I have full confidence in the Lord that He has someone in stored for me as He tries to prepare both of us for that right time.

God is the center of all our relationships even with our family, friends and all the people around us. This is the reason why Jesus became human, not just to redeem us from all our sins but also to show us how we should relate with other people. For simple things like on how to conduct ourselve with humility and love for one another with purity in our hearts.

Being in a commitment is like saying Im ready for marriage. And I'm not ;D